I guess that is the question right now.
So OTD eventually came around and on Sat 24th March at 4.30am I could hold my pee no longer! With dh awake, I peed in the pot and we sat on the bed together. With my hands shaking and my heart positively thumping out of my chest, I did the tests (yes, tests! I did the Care one, an internet cheapy and a CBD). As the control lines appeared on 2 of the tests, I found myself slowly shaking my head. I knew they were going to be negative :o( 3 long minutes passed and those heartbreaking words, that no IVF couple ever wish to see, appeared - 'Not Pregnant'. A silent tear rolled down my cheek. I just couldnt believe it. I was shocked and stunned. I honestly thought I was pregnant. Esp after the cruelest of dreams only 30 mins before had very clearly shown me the CBD saying 'Pregnant' :o( With the tests in the bin, I lay in my bed wrapped in my hubby's arms, silent tears falling as my brain struggled to take in the result.
Just to make our weekend even harder, dh had to work so I was left alone with my thoughts....I slept. It was the only thing I could do, I felt so numb. As requested, I rang care at 11am with the result. I was given that horrible instruction to remain on the meds and test again on Tues :o( As af hasnt made an appearance, there is still the smallest of chances our bfn could change to a bfp due to late implantation.....although it is much more likely that the meds are actually the ones holding off af *rolls eyes*. Yes, it is possible that it could be late implantation but the chances are miniscule. It just feels like we are prolonging the agony, only to face another heartbreaking bfn :o( DH didnt get home until very late last night and has been at work all day again today so I have hardly seen him. I have spent most of the weekend alone with my thoughts. Its been very lonely and sad and I will be very glad when Tues has been and gone and we can move on with our lives one way or another.
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